Washington D.C. is a city of many memorials and monuments. We deem it appropriate to honor and remember those who gave their lives for our country or served for the greater good in some way. One familiar site is a large V shaped black granite wall with the names of over 58,000 American men and women who died in the Viet Nam War etched into the stone. Our family has visited D.C. on a couple of occasions but one particular visit to the Vietnam wall left an indelible image in my mind. There was a stark contrast to the attitudes…